I am dreaming of a hot week day afternoon in Chennai - the fan pointlessly stirring and unsettling the heat in the air as I lie on the freshly washed printed cotton sheets in Peetha's spare bedroom. I can almost feel the slow drag of my eyelids heavy with blissful siesta Zs that I am staving off simply to savor the anticipation. In the distance I hear a rickshaw put-putting along and I can smell the coals and the steam from the cart almost right outside my window where wrinkles are being ruthlessly ironed out of existence on a bright yellow churidar. My breath seems to be sighing out a song of absolute contentment and I fall asleep in the happy anticipation of waking up to hot tea and of vadas fished out of bubbling oil and cooling off on newspaper spread on the stone counter. There is almost nothing as enticing as that mental picture, especially as I sit at my desk in a gray cubicle looking out at snow coming down on Minneapolis. Its visions like these that get me through the loneliness, the cold, the mind-numbing lack of enthusiasm to live through another shivering, snivelling day of sub-zero depression.
Some nights I call and talk to my homie Srik who indulges me with Chennai-Tamil classes - has me in splits the entire time so much that I swear I giggle in my sleep. I love the Machis, Maamas, Sithappus that pepper the conversation. I love learning the correct inflection for saying Doddaaa :) or calling a hapless driver a Saavugirakki. I am equipped with all instances when I have to say "serippu pinjidum" - apparently any configuration of words ending in "--kattai" are worthy of this treatment. Harder to remember are the exact meanings of such marvels of the language as "Apeetu", "Dabaikeeriya", "Asalta", "Dumeel" - but all the more fascinating for its obscurity of meaning.
When I am praying with Hema, its an entirely different plane of the same language that soothes my senses and fills my heart with the golden light of God-love. I watch gazillions of Tamil movies and my untutored understanding is beginning to discern the dialects, the ways, the little mannerisms that differentiate say Madurai from Thirunalveli. In my enthusiasm for the language, I often attempt to stutter out a few sentences which are unfortunately mangled beyond all recognition by my strong mallu accent and ofcourse the unorthodox sources from which this entire knowledge base is culled.
I always think back fondly about staying at the YWCA in Egmore, walking the streets of 'Medras' with a borrowed Nokia in my sweaty fist and my I-card in its plastic sleeve hanging around my neck, hailing an auto and shocking the driver with my meager Tamil when he talks to me in his version of Hindi and tryies to fleece me of triple the fare. I remember being mortified that I was so visibly an out-of-towner, being elated when I drank a sathukudi juice and didn't spend the next day in the bathroom, being triumphant when I haggle down prices with vendors selling costume jewellery on Ranganathan street.
I have so many more little things I want to get the typical Chennai flavor of - hanging out with some cool Chennai folks at Spencer, going to a SuperStar movie at a theatre, loitering until dusk at one of Chennai's awesome beaches without having a little cousin or nephew to rescue from a dangerous tendency to throw themselves into the waves, ride pillion on a bike behind a tall,dark and handsome tamil man:) along ECR... I could go on forever. But I wont - instead I am going to go on dreaming my Chennai dreams.